Why do beautiful girls always fall for bad boys? by Holy Bilal

The answer is simple: It’s evolution.

Women find bad boys attractive because in millions of years of human evolution bad boys typically strong, masculine, confident, dangerous-looking, dominant males had the advantage to survive.

Females who pick the “nice guys” and their children couldn’t survive and therefore in millions of years process females became attracted to alpha type “bad boy” males to produce a baby.

Therefore when women hit their golden age when they have the urge to have sex they find bad boys really attractive, it’s in their DNA. They want dominant, confident, strong male genes for their children.

Therefore specialties like height, wide shoulders, symmetric face, muscular body, confidence look very sexy for women.

Women don’t even notice nice guys who can’t even talk to women or have low confidence or are weak. That’s not attractive for them. Unfortunately, they don’t see them as men to make babies or have sex. This is sad I wish it shouldn’t be like that but biology is ruthless.

Women pick nice guys when they want to settle (typically when they’ve got older) and seek commitment. They want men who can provide for them. Because bad boys are not loyal. Bad boys are adventurer, independent type men.

This is one of the cold hard truths in our world. So if you want to become better with women, build your confidence, learn communication skills and take care of your body, lift weights a little bit.

Sex and Islam by Holy Bilal

It is something we cannot argue, it is infact the matter of our believes, as we cannot relay on hadiths. If quran ask to something at one place but did not forbid it any other place, then we will go for it.. as quran did with the alcohol.. first allowed then suggestion and then forbade..

same way if this muttah was to be banned Quran clearly could have asked for it. As Allah is ever knowing and don’t forgets.

All sects accept that the quranic verse 4:24 was reffred to Mutah once. Many sahaba followed this opinion of Allah. All sects will admit that at one point it was a clear suggestion toward temporary marriage.

Even Prophet Muhammad did himself for three times in his life, many other Sahaba also did. it is simply above the understanding that how this much misunderstanding can be done my the most modern religion and Allah forgot to forbid it in Quran once mentioning it.

it is my personal opinion that no sect is wrong, Allah is ever merciful and people from all sects have reliable sources to stick with their faith..

and aslo there is hadith in which Prophet Muhammad suggested that if something that is not in Quran you can go for it if you heart feels it good..

There are many things which each sect doing wrong.. beating their chests.. khullah concept.. and many more.. These are the things which kept contradictory for the purpose.. and that purpose was to not make it a law or a favorable thing.. but it is clear that it was not clearly forbade.. at one place Prophet Muhammad did not advise a child for not eating sugar because he himself eaten sugar that morning.. while on the other hand he did a thing for three times and forbidding others to not do that.. we cannot ignore the fact that people changed the hadith and created for the purpose to fulfill their ego..

The reason I am eagerly looking for the ways to prove legal/suggestible is that Feminists cancer is spreading all over the world. Families are becoming the victim; sincere people are becoming the victim of feminist’s cancer.

Suppose the extra marriage become the legal, and then feminist cancer will automatically be decreased. As the main weapon of women to control men is sex, they control men by limiting their access to sex. So if men are allowed for multiple spouses or seeking pleasure with other resources than feminists will be favored as Quran wants women to be.

What is love? The most satisfactory answer ever on internet.

Love is most beautiful thing in this world, world came out of love. But here let me tell you in depth what love is. We fell deeply in love with someone and wish to sped rest of our lives with them regardless of anything. And then one day your loved one came up, bewildered and anguished with “I don’t feel same for you anymore”

All of the sudden the land under your feet vanish up and your world plunged for ever with no hope, your life becomes the stage of everyday grudges.

Then the every quote about love on Facebook, twitter and Instagram becomes the spark to further ignite the anxiety and miserability. 

If we look the biologically we come to the point that love is basically mishmash of attraction and attachment. We have seen that when time passes, this attraction become little less, there is no spark left between you. You have now nothing to talk about, you have known other thoroughly. But does that mean your love is over? 

No, absolutely not. It simply means that your attraction phase is over; your honeymoon venture is over and moved to next stage of attachment. Now your love is just an attachment.

At this stage, you start to ignore your partner, and find it easy and appealing to jump to other relationship. Switching between one relationship to other relationship to FEEL again, instead of staying and fighting for your relationship and endure through its start to end, through its freshness to the rust.

Most of the time, your loved one meet someone new while still in relationship with you and then find that new more attractive. Then in this course of period they start hating what he/she once loved and start ignoring you. Mostly, people in this stage get carried along with that new one while leaving everything behind. 

Now they have something new to explore. Boys have new world to explore to fulfill curiosity while girls find it attractive in sense of new ways of appealing her and new ways of appreciating. Instead of communicating things with their boyfriend/girlfriend, they lost in renewed sense of attraction. It always sounds appealing to talk to new one, and to be admired in new ways. 

Here, they have completely left their boyfriend/girlfriend by accusing him/her of multiple things, a reason to end. They completely forget the attachment; they prioritize attraction over attachment. Sometimes they find themselves among the confused friends to get some advise who further misguide them, and they leave their ex loved one to suffer for the rest of his/her life. Unable to trust anybody again, a kind of destitute for rest of his/her life, living in inner misery.

If you are reading this, please make sure, instead of running after the attraction make your current relationship joyful. 

Regards: Holy Bilal

In the memory of Hira Sajjad(late)

Never Be Afraid To Try Something New by Holy Bilal

Never be afraid to try something new. Always remember the amateurs built the Ark, while professionals built the Titanic.

One thing which discriminate you from the champion is that they don’t afraid to do something new. They think of their selves as encourage men and the men who can do. They have mind which think as “if one can do, I can do”. we should never settle for the ordinary life, we must thrive to the greater of the greatness. What credit we give ourselves, we are capable of accomplishing more.

Every great achievement has ever done in the history is by the ordinary people, who pushed their selves beyond their limits. 

We can make our dream come true, only if we keep dreaming of our dream. Hard work, risk, struggle, discipline, courage and persistence are things we can develop in ourselves. All we have to do is to think of ourselves as deserve person, we have to make ourselves ready and deserver of success and anything, which we have dreamed of. I have this firm believe that any person who set his/her mind and heart to do anything he can definitely do. 

Only people who lack the ability to do nothing are those who think of themselves as “I could never do that” or “that person is more capable of me” but they fool no nothing about these accomplishers. Sweats, hard work, pressure, risk and sacrifices these accomplishers make to reach their dream. 

We just see their success not the hidden iceberg of hard work, risk, struggle; persistence, discipline, courage, change, adversity, rejection, sacrifices and then they get success. Greatness, extraordinary or success is not about the better, smarter or about individual who is more capable. I do believe is that the success and greatness come down with sweats, hard work, and late night wishes, but aside from these things what really do matter is perseverance and dedication is what discriminate the ordinary from the extra ordinary.

Most of the people start with great courage and zeal and then lose their heart, and I think that is the point where they are being tested by the universe whether they deserve the greatness or not. That is why before even dreaming, the attitude of success and greatness we should really wear on ourselves.

And we must have firm faith in ourselves and in our Allah, and we should have this faith that if I would show up in field, put my heart and mind and energy then Allah will help in achieving whatever I’m suppose to achieve. And never ever forget that you are all alone, you are not alone, Allah’s with you always. 

Have the attitude of deserve, which comes with the faith in you and in the Owner of Heavens and hells. Keep dreaming and struggle; there will be day when you will have your dream come true. 

Law Of Attraction: Role Of Gratitude In Our Lives Holy Bilal

O Blessing Souls! Why you have adopted the habit of complaining about your life all the time? Why you are so despair all the time? Don’t you have faith in Allah or upon yourself? All the time spitting complains like a little girl who complains of being pregnant by eating extra spaghetti haha. Your family and your friends have never seen you satisfied and contented in months so secretly they have started to hate you and avoid you. You attract problems and dilemma in your life, according to the law of attraction, which says you get what you think most of time.

Change your thinking habit and try to be kind, moral and emotionally healthy person in this world full of emotionally unhealthy and toxic people. Get along with positive and optimistic people and avoid people who are regretful, pessimistic and have complains all the time about his/her life. As Allah refrain us by being in touch with toxic people “The servants of the compassionate are those who walk upon the earth in humility. When the ignorant address them, they say, “Peace be upon you” (25:63)”

Complaining about your life which further attracts the problems in your life should not be appreciated. As even Allah does not like such things, you may remember the story of Prophet Yunus. In Quran Allah says “And be not like the Companion of the Fish when he cried out in agony (68:48)”. Allah threw him away in ocean where fish took him and kept in her belly for years. So if you do the same complaining then you will get the same reward, because it is universal law of attraction which attributes “by focusing on positive or negative thoughts a person brings positive or negative experiences into their life”.

Just take few minutes of your daily life and establish connection with Allah for few minutes with your full compassion. And adapt the habit of commitment and determination, mean be sure about what you want and when you do decide please don’t doubt yourself.

Be aware of what you think, to a large extent, creates the emotions that you feel because whatever you think or spit out of your mouth, you send the frequencies to the universe which is made of thoughts and therefore responds to such thoughts. Be clear what you want and what you don’t so that universe receive the clear frequency.

And ask universe and ask Allah and ask clearly and undoubtedly that what you want. Send clear message/picture of what you want and the universe will present it to you. you should have detailed vision of what you want and visualize upon it e.g. you want Bicycle then imagine yourself riding a bicycle, controlling bicycle, tuning bicycle and so on, the more detailed your vision the better visualization is.
Write your wishes everywhere and write it with compassion and faith as without faith all this would nothing but a self lie and a cunning ritual. Consider yourself with attribute like “I’m so happy and grateful” and that is exactly what Allah says in Quran “If you are grateful, I would certainly give you more; and if you are ungrateful, my chastisement is truly severe (14:7)”.
Always make yourself feel contented of jovial life and feel like you already have what you want in future, this way you are making yourself ready for what you desire in future. 

Adopt the habit of showing gratitude by remembering what best has given to you and be thankful for that. By paying the universe back with some gratitude will compassionate the universe to do even more favors. Allah attributes in Quran about the gratefulness as “If you are grateful, I will surely increase you in favor (14:7)”. And in other place in Quran Allah says “And few of my servants are truly grateful (34:13)”.

And above all things have faith in universe, the Allah, and there is this cosmic world which, whatever you truly desire comes true in an instant. And when you do have such faith in Allah, in yourself and in universe then you will see the miracles in your life. There is verse of Quran about faith as “.. And whoever relies upon Allah then He is sufficient for him. Indeed, Allah will accomplish His purpose. Allah has already set for everything (decreed) extent (65:3)”.

And again the faith should be the faith not a self lie, because the universe will test you before giving you whatever you desired that whether you are capable of that or not. So does Allah, as he says in Quran “do the people think that they will be left to say, ‘We believe’ and they will not be tried? (29:2)