It is something we cannot argue, it is infact the matter of
our believes, as we cannot relay on hadiths. If quran ask to something at one
place but did not forbid it any other place, then we will go for it.. as quran
did with the alcohol.. first allowed then suggestion and then forbade..
same way if this muttah was to be banned Quran clearly could
have asked for it. As Allah is ever knowing and don’t forgets.
All sects accept that the quranic verse 4:24 was reffred to
Mutah once. Many sahaba followed this opinion of Allah. All sects will admit
that at one point it was a clear suggestion toward temporary marriage.
Even Prophet Muhammad did himself for three times in his
life, many other Sahaba also did. it is simply above the understanding that how
this much misunderstanding can be done my the most modern religion and Allah
forgot to forbid it in Quran once mentioning it.
it is my personal opinion that no sect is wrong, Allah is
ever merciful and people from all sects have reliable sources to stick with
their faith..
and aslo there is hadith in which Prophet Muhammad suggested
that if something that is not in Quran you can go for it if you heart feels it
good..
There are many things which each sect doing wrong.. beating
their chests.. khullah concept.. and many more.. These are the things which
kept contradictory for the purpose.. and that purpose was to not make it a law
or a favorable thing.. but it is clear that it was not clearly forbade.. at one
place Prophet Muhammad did not advise a child for not eating sugar because he
himself eaten sugar that morning.. while on the other hand he did a thing for
three times and forbidding others to not do that.. we cannot ignore the fact
that people changed the hadith and created for the purpose to fulfill their
ego..
The reason I am eagerly looking for the ways to prove legal/suggestible
is that Feminists cancer is spreading all over the world. Families are becoming
the victim; sincere people are becoming the victim of feminist’s cancer.
Suppose the extra marriage become the legal, and then feminist
cancer will automatically be decreased. As the main weapon of women to control
men is sex, they control men by limiting their access to sex. So if men are
allowed for multiple spouses or seeking pleasure with other resources than
feminists will be favored as Quran wants women to be.